Money runs the world, Most will agree and some will disagree. Money brings happiness. Well all these statements are debatable, People have different opinion when it comes to finances. We all have a relationship regarding money, how you handle it, how you treat it, so the response regarding money will be based on your experience with it, I call it a two way relationship that really need to be natured and gurdied all the time.
I personally love money, I know how to treat it, I had my good and bad experiences when it comes to finance, I have made wrong decision which taught me something great about money, I use it as a tool, I know that I have to study/ analyse my behavior around it, I know that I need to give/ share when I have enough to do so, it can be in any form of sharing, giving 10 % of your salary at church each year, or just simply giving every sunday services at church, it really up to you which sharing you prefer and that worth giving too as well, that will make your heart be at peace.
I cannot measure my success through money, ( how much i have in my bank balance) cause you find that my success has nothing to do with money or being rich/ having a certain bank balance. Well I also think that the way you treat money it will give you the same response.
I believe that it rotate in circles, When you received your pay cheque , what do you pay for? do you you budget? do you have spending amount for going out? do you invest some of that money so that it can generate more income/ profit for you. Hence why I say it a relationship that needs to benefit both parties. In order for you to receive more of it , you need to be able to plaint it in various places that will be beneficial to you at the end.
You need to be able to do self evaluation when it comes to money, Be able to accept if you have a bad relationship with money, you are a spender of unnecessary things, you know them and no one will judge but acknowledge so that you can be able to go to step two. I know money makes me so happy that why I work so hard, for me it a necessity to have money and it allows me to live a comfortable life.
There is nothing wrong on loving money I believe, No one has the right to judge you that you love money, we generate money in different streams. Be able to say No to things that you can not afford, Be realistic about your needs and wants. Have priorities, they say money is not everything. I don’t know as yet , well it a debate for other day. What your language around people who have money, Do you hate them? if yes find your, Why? If you don’t hate them find your, Why also.
I wish you a healthy relationship with your money, I hope it brings you joy, I hope it doesn’t stresses you. Find healthy ways of managing it, No one has ever said I have enough money that I know, I wish to meet them one day, manage it well and don’t be hard to yourself, you are getting there and you truly doing so well. Keep it healthy and moving.
Zamas-Journey 