Its safe to say we all reference from our own experience. There’s no manual and it can never be the same. I can only say so much but you know your heart and your partner.
One thing I know about love is that it beautiful, It nice to be in love with someone that you trust, and I say “You trust” because trusting someone it a personal journey. The world/ or society can tell you everyday that you need to trust your partner but if you don’t trust him/ her you don’t. I for one knows that there’s no love that exist in an untrustworthy place. Nothing good is formed in an unstable foundation.
Love exist when we start dealing with our own personal issues, individually. Let normalize healing.. let normalize forgiving ourselves.
Finding someone who is not wounded….. chances are very slim, Finding someone who don’t have scars it very rare. But you can find someone who is ready to pour their heart out for you. It doesn’t mean they are not scared, or they are not hurt. Probably they are but they are doing it afraid. Always remember that fear can prevent you from being happy and experiencing something great.
Fear can paralyze you. It important to always check in with your heart and soul. What does it say about that your partner? Listen to that small voice deep down in your tummy. Listen to those butterfly running around in your tummy because they are telling you something or they mean something. Falling in love its beautiful, It makes one smile for no reason. Love is patience, Love is kind.
My wish for you is that; Please take that leap of faith and fall in-love, don’t give up on love. Also remember that there’s no manual in a relationship and marriage. Don’t compare your love journey with others, happiness is subjective to most of us.
#DoingItForMySoul…. #loveispatientandkind
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